Not many of us admit it, but we all want to seem more attractive. It is not always about how you look and your habits play a very important role in being perceived as attractive. It is often the personality you have which can help to strike that connection with others. Here are a few habits you can practice to look more attractive.
· Don’t announce your moves, surprise them instead
If you notice that your friend is upset about something and would need some cheering up then go ahead and surprise them! Do not tell them how exactly you would make them happy as it will only build up unrealistic expectations. Act in the moment and surprise them instead. Doing something unexpected is sure to have a greater impact than announcing your intentions. What you do will strike in their memory and their perception of you would change for good.
· Quit being a yes-man
You might think that the key to making others like you is to always agree to them. However, this is far from the truth. You actually have to be assertive and only say what you mean. If they call you to hang out and you simply don’t feel like the answer with a no. if you aren’t used to it, it might be a little difficult but with time you will get a hang of it. People respect those with boundaries rather than those who are always ready for an invitation. Saying no to things you don’t want actually shows them how real you are.
· Put your ego aside and be open to learning
You can complain about your situation continuously about how unfair life is to you, how others are doing great, how they simply don’t deserve anything and how you should magically get everything you ever wanted. However, the truth is that you have to work toward your goals to be able to accomplish them. Instead of being a cry baby, take steps that will actually bring your dreams to reality. People find ambitious people attractive. Those with a drive to make things happen usually make a lasting impression.
· Express gratitude and mean it
Gratitude is underrated. It can mean a lot to someone having a rough day and tells a lot about how you are as a person. Expressing gratitude helps you tell others how much they mean to you. Not only to your loved ones, expressing gratitude, in general, makes you look way more attractive. Make it point to only say what you mean. Do not just add a thank you without sincerely meaning it since it will lose its value.
· Prioritize yourself
Time is a precious thing and you must have seen successful people in always investing it wisely. If you wish to live a life worth living, you must value your own time. Prioritize your needs and others would do the same. As they say, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship.
Thus, if you wish to make your friends or colleagues find you attractive then practice the above-said habits regularly. You would soon notice the difference in how people treat you or act around you.